Comments for SpreadingHappiness.org http://www.spreadinghappiness.org Sat, 13 Mar 2010 13:17:29 -0700 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 Comment on Money: how much should we strive for it to become happy? by Rochkirstin http://www.spreadinghappiness.org/2009/08/money-how-much-should-we-strive-for-it-to-become-happy/comment-page-1/#comment-861 Rochkirstin Sat, 13 Mar 2010 13:17:29 +0000 http://www.spreadinghappiness.org/?p=43#comment-861 Hi Nick, Thanks for visiting my page and commenting on my <a href="http://authspot.com/thoughts/happiness-can-be-bought/" rel="nofollow">post</a>, which led me to gaining new insights from reading yours. My hat's off to your comprehensive analysis and brilliant thoughts! More power to your blog. I wish you more happiness. By the way, I have another article regarding happiness. Feel free to read it by clicking <a href="http://socyberty.com/advice/simple-ways-for-a-happier-you/" rel="nofollow">here</a>. :) Regards, Rochkirstin Hi Nick,

Thanks for visiting my page and commenting on my post, which led me to gaining new insights from reading yours.

My hat’s off to your comprehensive analysis and brilliant thoughts! More power to your blog. I wish you more happiness.

By the way, I have another article regarding happiness. Feel free to read it by clicking here. :)

Regards,
Rochkirstin

]]> Comment on How to Get Over a Break-up by VS http://www.spreadinghappiness.org/2010/03/how-to-get-over-a-break-up/comment-page-1/#comment-827 VS Fri, 12 Mar 2010 08:21:12 +0000 http://www.spreadinghappiness.org/?p=689#comment-827 I would agree with Elisa and hope that its just a momentary reaction. However, since you have been so clinical in your approach, I would suggest that you consider understanding the point that lust, attraction, attachment could be due to levels of different neurotransmitters. One could consider increasing the levels of the relevant neurotransmitters like oxytocin or vasopressin in himself and the mate. Heres one relevant article on the topic: http://www.helenfisher.com/downloads/articles/10lustattraction.pdf I would agree with Elisa and hope that its just a momentary reaction. However, since you have been so clinical in your approach, I would suggest that you consider understanding the point that lust, attraction, attachment could be due to levels of different neurotransmitters. One could consider increasing the levels of the relevant neurotransmitters like oxytocin or vasopressin in himself and the mate. Heres one relevant article on the topic:

http://www.helenfisher.com/downloads/articles/10lustattraction.pdf

]]> Comment on How to Get Over a Break-up by elisa freschi http://www.spreadinghappiness.org/2010/03/how-to-get-over-a-break-up/comment-page-1/#comment-824 elisa freschi Thu, 11 Mar 2010 21:27:50 +0000 http://www.spreadinghappiness.org/?p=689#comment-824 Dear Nick, thanks for this interesting post (and good luck!). I wonder why you did not even mention the idea of trying to 'restore' one's relationship. This could be suggested: 1. because in many (most?) cases a relationship can be restored. A girl/boy friend may have at the moment a hard time, and blame the relationship for that. I would not throw everything away without trying to fix it. 2. because failing after having tried hard make (for several/many people) it easier to accept the failure. Else, one would keep on thinking "what if I had done this or that?". I know, this does not apply to everyone, but to be happy the first rule is to know oneself, isn't it? You might suggest that point 1. only holds in case of a long-term relationship, after children have been born, etc. This is possible, but I guess that several/many people do not start a relationship unless they strongly believe in it, hence, they are ready to dedicate to its restoral time and energy. Dear Nick, thanks for this interesting post (and good luck!). I wonder why you did not even mention the idea of trying to ‘restore’ one’s relationship. This could be suggested: 1. because in many (most?) cases a relationship can be restored. A girl/boy friend may have at the moment a hard time, and blame the relationship for that. I would not throw everything away without trying to fix it. 2. because failing after having tried hard make (for several/many people) it easier to accept the failure. Else, one would keep on thinking “what if I had done this or that?”. I know, this does not apply to everyone, but to be happy the first rule is to know oneself, isn’t it?
You might suggest that point 1. only holds in case of a long-term relationship, after children have been born, etc. This is possible, but I guess that several/many people do not start a relationship unless they strongly believe in it, hence, they are ready to dedicate to its restoral time and energy.

]]> Comment on Money: how much should we strive for it to become happy? by Vishal http://www.spreadinghappiness.org/2009/08/money-how-much-should-we-strive-for-it-to-become-happy/comment-page-1/#comment-703 Vishal Fri, 26 Feb 2010 20:14:16 +0000 http://www.spreadinghappiness.org/?p=43#comment-703 Hi Nick, thanks for sharing and a wonderful attempt to spread happiness. I wish you luck in the endeavor finding happiness. I have defined "happiness as state of equilibrium of mind and soul, by self choice and beliefs." No one can make you happy or sad, its all within you. I don't think I can make anyone happy except myself - others will have to make the same attempt to be happy. Although you can give pleasures to someone but those needs to be repeated and will eventually become a work for you.. Seeking happiness is matter of "no effort" - you don't have to do anything to be happy. It is a beautiful- but you have to know your own self well... You may have to work on listening to self and being self...that is a journey of self discovery and one must take that to realize that "life is beautifully twisted" I have made a concept of Globezen - its a concept of 'Way of life" you can read it - see if make sense. its twisted Please feel free to visit http://globezen.org. Hi Nick, thanks for sharing and a wonderful attempt to spread happiness.

I wish you luck in the endeavor finding happiness.

I have defined “happiness as state of equilibrium of mind and soul, by self choice and beliefs.”

No one can make you happy or sad, its all within you. I don’t think I can make anyone happy except myself – others will have to make the same attempt to be happy. Although you can give pleasures to someone but those needs to be repeated and will eventually become a work for you.. Seeking happiness is matter of “no effort” – you don’t have to do anything to be happy. It is a beautiful- but you have to know your own self well… You may have to work on listening to self and being self…that is a journey of self discovery and one must take that to realize that “life is beautifully twisted”

I have made a concept of Globezen – its a concept of ‘Way of life” you can read it – see if make sense. its twisted
Please feel free to visit http://globezen.org.

]]> Comment on Money: how much should we strive for it to become happy? by Daddy Paul http://www.spreadinghappiness.org/2009/08/money-how-much-should-we-strive-for-it-to-become-happy/comment-page-1/#comment-690 Daddy Paul Thu, 25 Feb 2010 20:14:09 +0000 http://www.spreadinghappiness.org/?p=43#comment-690 Good read. If money could buy happiness the New York Yankees would be full of happy players. Just imagine how happy Washington DC would be. Good read. If money could buy happiness the New York Yankees would be full of happy players. Just imagine how happy Washington DC would be.

]]> Comment on A guide to enjoy classical music (2/3): Enabling an easy entry by Sources of Inspiration: My Favourite TED Presentations | SpreadingHappiness.org http://www.spreadinghappiness.org/2009/10/a-guide-to-enjoy-classical-music-23-enabling-an-easy-entry/comment-page-1/#comment-552 Sources of Inspiration: My Favourite TED Presentations | SpreadingHappiness.org Thu, 11 Feb 2010 16:53:07 +0000 http://www.spreadinghappiness.org/?p=277#comment-552 [...] more information on how to enjoy classical music please have a look at this blog post) [...] [...] more information on how to enjoy classical music please have a look at this blog post) [...]

]]> Comment on What this blog aims to achieve (and for whom it may be interesting) by Becca http://www.spreadinghappiness.org/2009/07/what-this-blog-aims-to-achieve-and-for-whom-it-may-be-interesting/comment-page-1/#comment-542 Becca Tue, 09 Feb 2010 18:49:38 +0000 http://www.spreadinghappiness.org/?p=3#comment-542 Hi Nick, I happened on your blog through a round-about way ... saw your link to your public speaking piece on training website. What a great find your blog is! Thank you for sharing your time and positive energy. I look forward to seeing more. Best Regards, Becca Hi Nick,

I happened on your blog through a round-about way … saw your link to your public speaking piece on training website. What a great find your blog is! Thank you for sharing your time and positive energy. I look forward to seeing more.

Best Regards,
Becca

]]> Comment on Analysis of Public Speaking Anxiety and Proposals by Tom http://www.spreadinghappiness.org/2010/01/analysis-of-public-speaking-anxiety-and-proposals/comment-page-1/#comment-520 Tom Fri, 05 Feb 2010 10:16:22 +0000 http://www.spreadinghappiness.org/?p=521#comment-520 Hi Nick, Thankyou for your kind comments on my video: http://www.dailymotion.com/video/xbizz2_how-to-remove-your-fear-of-public-s_shortfilms. The information you have here is put together extremely well and I would love to publish it on my website if possible. Having helped many people overcome their fears of public speaking, I think this report explains the issue very well and is easily understood. Let me know if you'd like to publish it to my site - you can email me on tom@tombreeze.com. Many thanks, Tom. Public Speaking Expert Hi Nick,
Thankyou for your kind comments on my video: http://www.dailymotion.com/video/xbizz2_how-to-remove-your-fear-of-public-s_shortfilms.
The information you have here is put together extremely well and I would love to publish it on my website if possible. Having helped many people overcome their fears of public speaking, I think this report explains the issue very well and is easily understood.
Let me know if you’d like to publish it to my site – you can email me on tom@tombreeze.com.
Many thanks,
Tom.
Public Speaking Expert

]]> Comment on Analysis of Public Speaking Anxiety and Proposals by Dan http://www.spreadinghappiness.org/2010/01/analysis-of-public-speaking-anxiety-and-proposals/comment-page-1/#comment-518 Dan Fri, 05 Feb 2010 02:29:10 +0000 http://www.spreadinghappiness.org/?p=521#comment-518 Nick, Very well done! I have to say that the flowchart is one of the most comprehensive explanations of public speaking fear that I've ever seen. You mention many great ideas and I think that anyone with public speaking fear should read. I also have an article on my site that dives into the root and a cure for public speaking fear, <a href="http://wp.me/puPEL-5" rel="nofollow">Public Speaking Fear: The root and a cure</a>. Thanks again for a great article. Dan Nick,

Very well done! I have to say that the flowchart is one of the most comprehensive explanations of public speaking fear that I’ve ever seen. You mention many great ideas and I think that anyone with public speaking fear should read. I also have an article on my site that dives into the root and a cure for public speaking fear, Public Speaking Fear: The root and a cure. Thanks again for a great article.

Dan

]]> Comment on Money: how much should we strive for it to become happy? by C.V.Rajan http://www.spreadinghappiness.org/2009/08/money-how-much-should-we-strive-for-it-to-become-happy/comment-page-1/#comment-516 C.V.Rajan Thu, 04 Feb 2010 16:51:56 +0000 http://www.spreadinghappiness.org/?p=43#comment-516 Again another good analysis from you. Incidentally, I too have an article in this subject at Helium. Please drop in: http://www.helium.com/items/1476123-the-link-between-money-and-happiness CVR Again another good analysis from you.

Incidentally, I too have an article in this subject at Helium. Please drop in:
http://www.helium.com/items/1476123-the-link-between-money-and-happiness

CVR

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